Turn *_REMOTE into *_SHARED

"Paul E. McKenney" <paulmck@linux.vnet.ibm.com>:
I suspect that LOAD_SHARED() and STORE_SHARED() would be more intuitive.
But shouldn't we align with the Linux-kernel usage where reasonable?
(Yes, this can be a moving target, but there isn't much else that
currently supports this level of SMP function on quite the variety of
CPU architectures.)

Signed-off-by: Mathieu Desnoyers <mathieu.desnoyers@polymtl.ca>