cmm: let per-arch files provide cmm_smp_* barriers

x86 instructions lfence and sfence are rarely needed, thus we want
the cmm_smp_rmb/cmm_smp_wmb macros to be simple compiler barriers.
So, let the per-arch files override the default definitions in
arch/generic.h.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mathieu Desnoyers <mathieu.desnoyers@efficios.com>