rculfhash: Change lazy shrink strategy

We can aggressively grow a ht,
but we should conservatively shrink a ht.

When we try to shrink the ht after a deletion,
but if a growing is required after it, we should
stop this shrink.

But it is more complicated to implement it, so we use more
conservative strategy to shrink a ht to gain simple code:

We stop to (lazy) shrink when we found growing is
in progress.

[ Edit by Mathieu Desnoyers: Add documentation, cleanup. ]

Signed-off-by: Lai Jiangshan <laijs@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Mathieu Desnoyers <mathieu.desnoyers@efficios.com>