use generic-size macros for common implementation of atomic ops

The definition of _uatomic_cmpxchg is different in x86 and other
architectures.  For x86 it is a 4-argument macro, for other
architectures it is a 3-argument function.  This patch makes it easier
to implement atomic operations incrementally (first as a generic version
and then in machine-specific code), which aids testing and
bisectability.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mathieu Desnoyers <mathieu.desnoyers@efficios.com>