Fix: relayd: use of relay_session ref count before initialization

Fix: relayd: use of relay_session ref count before initialization

The relay_session's reference count is used before it is initialized
on multiple code paths of session_create(). The initialization of the
reference count, mutexes, and intrusive data structure nodes are
initialized earlier to make their use safe in the event of an error.

Signed-off-by: Jérémie Galarneau <jeremie.galarneau@efficios.com>
Change-Id: I1be53ad88a3e783b85b4c568527df1a75ce58d3a