Fix: honor send timeout on unix socket connect

Needed if we want to hold the ust_lock() while we connect to the session
daemon without blocking the application forever if the session daemon is
hung on SIGSTOP.

This only triggers if we launchs _many_ applications with a session
daemon SIGSTOP'd (e.g. 1000 in parallel), so we fill the socket queue,
and applications hang there until the session daemon is SIGCONT'd.

Signed-off-by: Mathieu Desnoyers <mathieu.desnoyers@efficios.com>